Mindfulness Mentor, Meditation Teacher & Practice Manager

For many years, I was unconsciously living from the stories I’d created about myself, stories shaped by my past experiences while constantly trying to create a different future. Like many of us, I believed happiness, peace and fulfillment were somewhere ahead, if only life unfolded the way I hoped. That began to change in 2013 when my family and I relocated from Canberra to Melbourne. Leaving behind the life we had built challenged me deeply. I found myself questioning who I was and searching for something more meaningful. It was through mindfulness and meditation that I discovered a completely different way of relating to life.

Instead of trying to fix or escape what I was feeling, I learnt to simply be with it. I realised that the present moment wasn’t something to get through, it was where life was actually happening. As I became more aware of my body, my thoughts and my emotions, I experienced greater calm, clarity and resilience, not because life became easier, but because my relationship with it changed.

Mindfulness has been part of my life since childhood. Growing up in Sri Lanka, these practices were woven into my family life and culture. What began as something familiar became a lifelong path of self-discovery, presence and compassion. My philosophy is deeply influenced by Buddhist teachings not as a religion, but as a practical way of understanding the mind, easing suffering, and living with greater wisdom, compassion and presence.

In 2020, I completed a Certificate in Guiding and Teaching Meditation and Mindfulness through the Australian Centre for Meditation and Mindfulness. I later completed my Mindfulness Mentor training through Banyan with Tara Brach and Jack Kornfield. Their teachings, together with my own personal practice, continue to shape both my life and the way I support others.

Alongside this work, I’ve been the Practice Manager of Alive Physio & Wellness since my husband and I opened our first clinic in 2007. Together, we’ve created a space that honours the interconnectedness of mind, body and spirit, supporting people with compassion, curiosity and whole-person care.

Shilani Perera mindfulness mentor and meditation teacher

My Philosophy

“Realise deeply that the present moment is all you ever have.” — Eckhart Tolle

At the heart of my work is a simple understanding: many of us spend our lives replaying the past or worrying about the future. We become caught in the stories of our minds, believing that when life finally looks a certain way, we’ll feel happy, safe or complete.

Life has always been here. We just don’t notice it when our minds are somewhere else.

When our mind is constantly somewhere else, our nervous system often follows, remaining stuck in patterns of stress, vigilance or overwhelm. Through mindfulness, awareness and gentle meditation practices, we can reconnect with the body, regulate the nervous system, and create the conditions for greater calm, clarity and resilience.

My approach isn’t about stopping thoughts or achieving a perfectly peaceful mind. It’s about learning to notice what’s happening with kindness rather than judgement. As we become more aware of our thoughts, emotions and physical sensations, we create space to respond with intention instead of reacting from old habits and conditioning.

For me, mindfulness isn’t something we practise only while sitting in meditation. It’s a way of living. A way of meeting ourselves, our relationships and the world with greater presence, compassion and acceptance.

Whether you’re navigating stress, anxiety or change or simply longing to feel more present in your everyday life, my hope is to offer a safe and welcoming space where you can reconnect with yourself and discover that the peace you’ve been searching for has been here all along.

expertise

  • Breath awareness meditation
  • Mindfulness meditation
  • Insight meditation
  • Body scan or progressive relaxation meditation
  • Mantra meditation
  • Loving-kindness meditation
  • Visualization meditation

Qualifications

  • Certificate in Mindfulness Mentor – Banyan 2025
  • Certificate in Guiding and Teaching Meditation and Mindfulness – Australian Centre for Meditation and Mindfulness 2020
  • Personal meditation practice for over 10 years
  • Registered Meditation Teacher – Meditation Association of Australia
  • Bachelor of Business (Management) – Monash University 2001

Professional Memberships

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Our Sessions:

Workshops

The Playful Pause

  • Sat 3 Oct – 2.30pm-4.30pm
  • Sat 31 Oct – 2.30pm-4.30pm
  • Sat 21 Nov – 2.30pm-4.30pm


Workshops are held in person at the clinic

All materials and afternoon tea included

$55 per workshop

1:1 Personalised Meditation